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Sober activities for summer evenings
Whether you’re sober curious, in early sobriety or a well established sober legend, I thought it might be useful to pull together a few of my favourite game-changing pieces of quit-lit…

“What do you do if you don’t drink?!”
Whether you’re sober curious, in early sobriety or a well established sober legend, I thought it might be useful to pull together a few of my favourite game-changing pieces of quit-lit…

Lockdown drinking helped me become sober.
Our relationship with alcohol can often start to reach parts of our lives that make us take a step back and think. In this guest

The Best Sober Books for Ditching the Booze
Whether you’re sober curious, in early sobriety or a well established sober legend, I thought it might be useful to pull together a few of my favourite game-changing pieces of quit-lit…

Guest Blog: Brittany
Going sober means that there are lots of firsts along the way! First sober night out, first sober date, first sober gig… the list goes

I’m sober but sometimes I do wanna drink.
People often ask me if I’ve ever wanted to drink alcohol since I stopped drinking… this picture was taken the day after I was made

I'm Siobhan O'Connor
and I'm just here living my best sober life.
I created @notsosecretlysober in early sobriety. It’s called Not So Secretly Sober because I just couldn’t keep my mouth shut about how much I loved sobriety. I wanted to tell the world how different I felt. That my skin finally started to fit me more comfortably.
Sobriety has completely changed my life in the best possible way. I created Not So Secretly Sober because I couldn’t keep the benefits of sobriety to myself.
I was never physically dependent on alcohol. I was a weekend warrior, binge drinking, party girl. Now I’m all about wholesome weekends and big sober nights out.